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Why Your Biggest Fear is your ticket to Freedom

This week, an old friend left a scathing attack to me & my work on Facebook. Years ago, it would have devastated me.  Instead, I am grateful to her because she activated me to write this post… Here’s what I am observing: Some of you still playing the waiting game...

Are You Doing Too Much?

You post your smiles. Yet you hide behind a mask of success.  Your desire to LOOK GOOD Runs you. And it is exhausting.  You cover up the incongruency in your life Not because you are lying to others. You are mostly lying to yourself.  Ignoring the misalignment in your...

What Surfing Teaches about Success Mindset in Business

We are ruled by our subconscious beliefs and patterns. When we are able to shift those beliefs and mindset, we get different results in our life. Success is 90 percent mindset! For the last three years I have decided to learn how to surf. I surf because it flushes up...

Redefining Affluence & Why We Moved to Costa Rica

Affluence is a byproduct of living on purpose in all areas of our life. It’s the freedom to create the money flow that you want, aligned with your heart, and to do what you want when you want, with whom you want. Often we associate Affluence with outer stuff....

Suicidal Thoughts & the Law of the Slingshot

Hi love, the past few weeks I dove deep into a personal hell of depression. I sobbed tears of despair. And what was worse... waking up & feeling nothing. I had brushed up against a former version of myself. She is crazy. She is self-destructive. She thinks she is...

The Myth of “I AM ENOUGH”

[Read this Activation] "I am enough" drove my quest to get a PhD. I sought to overcompensate for the shame I felt for my past: I was a stripper in my twenties. When I returned to school at the age of 28, I hid behind the facade of the straight-A student and later,...

Are you listening with your head or heart?

I cut this video for you at a beautiful resort a short distance from my house. Check it out. Many of you asked me--how can I connect more deeply to my Higher Self? How can I tell the difference between my Higher Self or my mind? How can I know? Unless you can...

The backstory of why we separated and YOU

Are you ready to step into the Highest, most ABUNDANT version of your SELF? Here, I reveal an intimate part of my life. My husband and I almost broke up! And not for the reasons we typically give for why we leave a relationship. It was because I received a directive...

The Real & Raw WHY I Am the Affluence Coach

As we heal, we peel back the layers. We discard the masks of perfection. We return to our truest selves. I felt stirred to share this never-revealed part of my story. It is time to bring this issue up into the light so we can all transmute our weaknesses into...

Jaguars, Quantum Leaps, and YOU!

Remember the jaguar that visited our pool the other night? It was not a jaguar! Last night, driving home from dinner, a black panther bounded in front of our car and sprung up the hill into the jungle. It happened lightening fast. I could only see the back of the...

The Subtle Ways We Procrastinate

A jaguar crept up to our pool's edge last night. The purr of a wild cat startled my husband from sleep. At first, he thought it was just an average cat. But it was unlike anything he had ever heard before. Instinctively, he knew it was not safe to go outside. AJ, who...

Do you feel RICH?

You are wealthy. You are abundance. You are blessed. Notice what thoughts come up for you as you read this? What are the rituals you practice daily that help you remember these truths? I share a favorite morning ritual that plugs me into the vibration of abundance....

The Irony of Surrender

I was lying on the bathroom floor at a boyfriend's house. Alone. Almost morning, I swooned from a near-lethal concoction of drugs and alcohol. Throwing up over the toilet bowl, I surrendered. "God, please help me." In that moment I received the grace to break free of...

A Tale of Not-Enough-ITIS

4 years ago, I invested in a coaching program. Within 7 months, I  arrived!  I achieved the 6 figure golden grail of every newbie entrepreneur. I felt unstoppable. Yet I still had not completed the inner work to HOLD the money. Even though ironically, I was teaching...

How To Shift Out Of Struggle

What in your life is causing you angst? What is the main challenge.you are dealing with? Struggle is the birth canal of opportunity. And as soon as you can see the GIFT, you can shift. Read on, if you would like to know how. A tragic bicycle accident changed my life....

The Real Secret to Manifesting

I’m back in Costa Rica. I’ve never been so happy to be home. I had moved so much in my life. When I was a kid, my dad was in the Navy. And then, I married my guy on the fast-track corporate ladder. We moved 5 times in 7 years. So yes, I’m loving this feeling of being...